What Constitutes Unacceptable Behaviour?
Unacceptable behaviour includes any form of bullying, discrimination, or harassment, as outlined in the Staff and Student Dignity and Respect Policies.
Remember: You are not expected to resolve the situation alone – seek support if you feel unsafe.
How Can You Be an Active Bystander?
Disrupt the Situation:
- If safe to do so, intervene by interrupting the behaviour. For example, ask the person responsible to assist with something or invite the person affected away from the situation to de-escalate.
- Small actions, such as asking for directions or making casual remarks, can divert or disrupt negative behaviour.
Speak to the Person Responsible for the Behaviour:
- When safe and comfortable, approach the person responsible after the incident.
- Use reflective questions to encourage awareness, e.g., “Were you aware of how your words sounded?” or express your own feelings, e.g., “I found that upsetting.”
- Avoid direct accusations or language that might cause defensiveness, such as labelling or calling out overtly offensive behaviours. For guidance on how to handle such conversations, see the 'Calling In and Calling Out' resources.
Support the Person who Experienced the Behaviour:
- Reach out to acknowledge what happened. Ask if they are okay and listen without assumptions.
- Encourage them to seek further support if needed.
Report the Incident:
- If the person affected is unable or unwilling to report, offer to assist - such as accompanying them.
- Report the incident through the University’s Report + Support system or contact relevant services (HR Advisory Service via the HR Helpline, Student Advisors).